NUSYUZ AS A CONFLICT FAMILY AND THE SOLUTION (Study of Syaikh Nawawi Al-Bantani in The Uqud al-Lujayn Book)

  • Ahmad Ropei STAI Miftahul Huda Subang
Keywords: Nusyuz, Family Conflict, Shaykh Nawawi, Uqud al-Lujayn.

Abstract

Every family couple certainly wants a harmonious and happy household life which in religious terms is called sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah. However, in the course of the household life is often faced with various problems that often lead to divorce. Among the problems that are often faced in domestic life is nusyuz. This study aims to describe the views of Syekh Nawawi in the book 'Uqûd al-Lujayn about nusyuz and its solutions. This research belongs to the descriptive-qualitative type by collecting data using literature techniques. The results showed that Nusyuz in Syekh Nawawi's view was an act of hatred between husband and wife as a family partner in the form of a violation of commitment in exercising their respective rights and obligations. The solution offered is in the form of hierarchical stages (advice, separation of beds, and beatings) with a note that beatings should be avoided as much as possible because they do not reflect the welfare side and are considered not of much use in resolving family conflicts caused by nusyuz.

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Published
2021-03-28
How to Cite
Ropei, A. (2021, March 28). NUSYUZ AS A CONFLICT FAMILY AND THE SOLUTION (Study of Syaikh Nawawi Al-Bantani in The Uqud al-Lujayn Book). Al Hakam: The Indonesian Journal of Islamic Family Law and Gender Issues, 1(1), 1-15. https://doi.org/https://doi.org/10.35896/alhakam.v1i1.174
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